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You Owe It To Me

Everyone has heard the saying, “Familiarity breeds contempt”. When someone is treating a person, privilege, or possession with disdain that is undeserved, it is clearly noted that the good things enjoyed are being viewed as an entitlement. When a nation has had the blessings of God, the massive privileges of wealth, the freedoms that were given to us, and so many benefits that are too numerous to count, a generation that was given those without working for them sees them as common expectations.  What we are seeing in rampant rioting and chaos is a good example of many in a generation that have never lived without getting what they wanted.

“Living in this house is like living in hell,” screamed the young girl as she stamped her feet on the way upstairs to her room. The mother stood looking at her daughter, a hint of tears forming in her eyes. She wanted to run up the stairs and hug her daughter but she knew the timing would be wrong. Her daughter had openly refused to clear off the table and put the dirty dishes in the dishwasher: she had to be disciplined. Still, her daughter’s earlier acquisition that her mother did not love her had hit a raw nerve. The mother had come very close to shouting at her daughter: “Who was it that always stood beside you in tough times; who was it that cheered the loudest during your soccer games; who was it that constantly encouraged you when you felt like you were failing; or just who do you think it is that constantly keeps you in her prayers?” But she had choked back the harsh questions. Instead, she said a silent prayer that her daughter would eventually come to understand her mother loves her very much. 

As she watched her daughter angrily slam her bedroom door, the mother wondered if perhaps her daughter wasn’t just a little bit spoiled: perhaps by too much loving attention from her parents. To be honest, her daughter had reached that age where she seemed to think that her parents only existed to serve her wants. The young teenage girl had lost sight of the fact she was part of a family and that she was expected to contribute to the family as well as take from the family. A smile began to creep across the woman’s face as she reflected on her daughter’s attitude: “Almost reminds me of me during my last prayer!” 

As she turned and walked back to the dining room the woman thought: “Do I really act like a spoiled child in my expectations from God?” The woman sat down at the table and stared at the dirty dishes, she reflected on her Christian attitude: “It’s true, sometimes we Christians get to the point where we think God exists for the sole purpose of filling our lives with health, wealth and happiness.”   (From a sermon by Robert Sickler, JESUS — An Example of Tough Love, 9/20/2011)

The Lord knows our proclivity to become ungrateful.  It is the pattern of individuals, families, and even churches and nations.  His warning to Israel as they were about to inherit Canaan is just as relevant in this present hour….

When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the Lord your God for the good land he has given you. 11 Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God, failing to observe his commands, his laws and his decrees that I am giving you this day. 12 Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down, 13 and when your herds and flocks grow large and your silver and gold increase and all you have is multiplied, 14 then your heart will become proud and you will forget the Lord your God… remember the Lord your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth.  (Deuteronomy 8:10-14, 18).